Choice of 25-year-old

That year, 25-year-old Eileen Chang published her most important collection of short stories "The Legend", with Lancheng of that "low dust" love is about drawing to a close; Xiao Hong "Life and Death" has been completed, to leave China far to go to Japan, a mentor Lu Xun's death, and she heard the news that the grief harder and harder. As for Ding Ling, also wrote the first novel, "Wei Hu, preparatory working with her husband to do a magazine called" red and black ". The 25-year-old Lin Huiyin, gave birth to her and Liang's daughter Liang ice. LiuXiaoMan is from the 25-year-old started eating opium, then she has divorced and, in a second marriage and Xu, love is suffering from the wear and tear of daily life. Rough over here, for the Republic of ladies who, 25 years old, a major event in the life probably has occurred. In the most prosperous age, they have become their own.

 With the the years migration, youth postpone occur. To today's era, the girl you want to live out in the 25-year-old a clear distinction between themselves, it is not very easy. The now 25-year-old girl, some even before they leave the campus, and some just started working a year or two, very ignorant things, the future is full of confusion. They may still exploring exactly what style dress more suitable, plans to save money to realize a dream long travel back. They may also believe that the soul mate thing, and sincerely looking for that person. In short, in this age, the world just are unveiled. Physiological, but had to accept the fact of aging start. Even if the body is unaware want to ignore this channel watershed I am afraid it is very difficult, because as long as you turn on the TV or open a magazine, cosmetics advertising will continue to be reminded that, "after 25 years of age, the skin of the rapid loss of water ......" , since the youth no longer, then lose eligibility turmoil, then it must settle down. Should be faster to get married as soon as possible home buyers have children. Follow the logic of this society, a series of practical problems blowing. The girls unprepared, secular binding always amazingly powerful, even though the wrong side of their own wish, they will still have to succumb. One 25-year-old, a lot of girls became very anxious, eager to get rid of when a problem, for fear of later, the problem becomes a problem, the problem becomes trouble. So hurry landing, sinking into a stable life status.
 
    Someone this way has been passed down, someone has to go back a few years later, a rude awakening camel come to understand: this life is not what you want. Recently often heard such stories: the resignation of 30-year-old female from a privileged treatment to work, divorce or break up, go to a long trip alone, then moved to go to the Dali or Xiamen. Abandoned before accumulated short, began to live a free life. With certain youth owe them almost willful pet of their own. May be too early to settle down because of it, they said, feeling twenties like to live for the sake of others.
  
    Speaking of Dali exactly where sojourn, saw many people in the story. Open a small restaurant or cafe, possessor of tempting plants, lazy cats and dogs, patiently doing various chores store efforts, and even a little more deliberately in love with life and nature. See at a glance the many years spent in the metropolis, looking calm and firm, and seemed to say, they are on the front of all how much treasure. You can easily judge, they are re-select that kind of life. The side of the road just a few meters away, many on the grounds of stall girl, mostly twenty-four-year-old, firmly believe that the youth should be spent in wandering, so I chose another life outside the secure landing: while working side travel to before the age of 30, traveled to China and Southeast Asia. Their lively and enthusiastic, almost lived a solitary life, after evening shut the shop, everyone will get together to drink, to communicate with each other the next place to go, and Miao Yuan life planning. According to my limited observation, the woman shop stall girl little exchange, what life intersection. They originally two life trajectories, one is to seek a dream, a to complement dream.
    The 25-year-old girls do an important choice, but also how to deal with their dreams, pursue or abandon. Sought, may be disappointed; abandoned, may turn around to chase. Both are in fact not be regarded as a failure. It should be clear, the choice of 25-year-old is not a once and for all, but it leads to a period or a long or short life experience.